We are never so defenseless against suffering, as when we love. -Sigmund Freud As all of us know there are many deaths that befall us in our lifetime — the most feared, perhaps, being our physical death. So wounding is the loss of someone we love, so painful as we rest him or her back … Continue reading Ordinary narcissism: True & false specialness
What do we need, in order to come out of our shell? To feel secure? To feel that we are competent at what we do? I remember being struck by actress Jodie Foster's response in an interview after she won a best actor Oscar. She said, "I thought it was a fluke. I thought everybody … Continue reading What do we need to feel secure?